To everyone out there who isn’t conservative, who has lived beyond their means, who has purchased a fancy car or clothes they couldn’t afford, who owns expensive shoes but their lights got cut off while wearing and partying in those same shoes, who quit their job without having a replacement, etc., etc…..
Who never went to college . Who went to prison, who Hooked up or married the wrong person twice. Who got evicted.
Who constantly have to listen to people congratulate themselves because they love touting their so-called “lack of mistakes” ….
EVERYONE and I mean EVERYONE has made mistakes and EVERYONE has skeletons in their dirty little closets. Even Mr & Mrs Conservative aka wealth Expert.
Try to do the BEST you can and while you’re at it, live life to its fullest. Try to handle your business and be as responsible as possible.
Take care of your children FIRST no matter what because they didn’t ask to be here
Don’t be afraid to be YOU and enjoy life.
Why? Because just as much as people say money and things don’t buy happiness, neither does sitting around judging everyone else’s life or monitoring what others are spending their money on.
Imagine how miserable you need to be to sit around mulling over someone’s lifestyle that has absolutely nothing to do with you….
We all live and we all die and these years go by fast EVEN if you save every dime or run around looking for a “I barely splurged ever” trophy.
I don’t participate in religious beliefs but I do know that if there is a heaven or hell, you can’t take a mf red cent with you wherever you’re going.
As long as you aren’t hurting or hindering anyone, HAVE FUN! Go on that vacation, buy that belt, partaaaaa (party), flash around. Buy that Lamborghini!!!
Build memories people….
I remember living in the hood as a child and the only joy I had was when I put on that new outfit. I was happy that whole day. Not saying I didn’t have other joyous moments. But believe me, That one day of joy was worth a thousand. And yes, it came from an OUTFIT which made me, What??? HAPPY
If you’ve never lived in poverty, had your lights cut off or had to pull the covers over your head to keep the roaches from crawling on your face while you slept in your 20 degree house because the gas was cut off in January, DON’T you fix your mind to assume you’re an authority on everyone’s FINANCES.
Everyone’s path is not and will never be the same because we are human beings and we are all different from the inside out.
Can you imagine a world of mfs who all had the same opinion(s), thoughts, values, talents, habits, ethics???
The whole “life experience” would be worthless.
Judgers, yeah YOU 👁️, do you really want to live in a world full of clones?
Would it make you feel better about yourself. Would you be happy then? What would you do with yourself with no one to judge if everyone was exactly like you?
There is a way to make things better. And that way is by HELPING not JUDGING, or insulting.
If you’re consumed or concerned about what people are doing with their lives or money and you believe they need help to make better decisions, Get off your keyboard and get off your ass and “HELP”.
But also understand, EVERYONE, isn’t going to exist, respond or think like you. And that is a good thing. Because, if you were happy, you wouldn’t be sitting around trying to figure out ways to make people feel bad about themselves or pointing fingers.
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